A strong sou’easter wind intensified, creating choppy waves during a lobster fishing expedition in Aldouane, N.B. Amid the challenging conditions, the author’s mother humorously advised, “Ya gotta drive ‘er it like you stole ‘er!” The duo navigated the rough waters, with the author finding some relief as they decided to cut short their fishing trip.
During a meal break on the boat, things took a tense turn when they had to make a sharp turn amid conflicting currents. The boat was suddenly hit hard on the side, prompting the author’s mother to issue a warning to hold on tight. The boat tilted drastically, causing the author to cling to a metal pole as their feet lifted off the ground. With swift actions, the mother skillfully maneuvered the boat back on course, averting a potential disaster.
Gratefully, they safely sailed towards the calmer Richibucto River, sharing laughter as a sign of relief after the harrowing experience. The incident served as a reminder of the dangers of the sea, with news of a nearby boat sinking adding to the community’s apprehension. Despite the risks, the author’s family has a deep connection to the ocean, with the author and her mother both working as deckhands in the fishing industry.
Breaking gender barriers, the author’s mother, Debbie Thompson, became one of the first female lobster captains in New Brunswick, showcasing determination and resilience in a male-dominated field. Despite facing skepticism and superstitions, she persevered and paved the way for other women in the industry. Inspired by her mother’s legacy, the author found her calling at sea, finding solace and reverence in the fishing profession.
Reflecting on the unpredictability of fishing and the sea’s dual nature of beauty and danger, the author acknowledged the shared experiences and challenges faced by fishermen and fisherwomen alike. The author expressed gratitude for her mother’s trailblazing efforts, acknowledging the evolving landscape of women in the fishing industry. As they continue their fishing journey together, they brace for uncertainties but also anticipate more memorable moments and triumphs at sea.